Originally Posted by Left Hand Percherons
This is your entire problem. Choose people to ride with who will not put you in such a position.
Not really a choice. She's the only reason I got into riding (well, that and Zyrtec - long story
), co-owns my horse & keeps it at her place (deal is that she does feeding &c, while I pay the bills), has the horse trailer and all the associated stuff. Plus she & her husband (who doesn't ride) are two of my closest friends.
And the other people we sometimes ride with are mostly worse