I'm right there with you, between being pregnant, having baby and being tied down with the baby my horse has only been ridden about two dozen times in the last year. I haven't had the chance to ride him at all since before Christmas because I'm always with the baby and I don't think he'll come around the gallop with me. Summer is grand when I can push the buggy into the field and just do circles around him but winter is a write off this year :(
Stop for a minute, open your mind, learn. You may not agree with what I say, I may not agree with what you say but we will both learn something new.