So glad you are working through this w/him. I used to ride on the roads (alone) at my previous residence, but as horse people moved out & the density intensified,it got worse over the years. I found a riding partner,& bought a trailer,& both of these solutions helped & made things safer, & finally,I moved to a very rural area, in the next state over. Only a handful of vehicles pass by on the dirt road on any given day now. I'll see how my new mare likes it when I bring her home in a couple of weeks.