Hey, do not feel guilty - that's not our intention! You've got some different perspectives to think about and now you've got a plan. We are learning all our lives long! You've got Phoenix's best interests at heart and we all know that from your other posts. She knows you're looking out for her! (PS - I don't believe in reincarnation but if I did, I'd feel lucky to come back as one of your horses....!)
That is such a lovely thing to say Ladytrails, thank you. You know what, secretly I have always thought if I was going to be reincarnated I would like to come back as my own cat! You should see my two spoiled boys lol.