So I know you can hold your reins with one between your thumb and index finger, and one between your index finger and middle finger with the ends running past your pinky, and I also know of people that hold their reins with 2 hands as if they are riding english. Are you also able to bridge your reins, like crossing them over themselves and holding them together through your hand? They do that in english sometimes, during training. I was just curious, it could possibly help me?
I do that with my leather split reins and my nylon split reins were tied (not like you would tie shoes, but like you would tie a knot with a length of string. Does that make sense?). But you didn't say what your actual problem is, so it's rather difficult to help.