C'mon guys, I'm sure none of you would have reacted aggressively to the girl in a real life situation.
Where I had the issue was when she turned him to try again she gave him three hard smacks on the arse and a sock in the mouth that nearly took his back teeth out. Had she just turned him and tried again I would not have had any isue what so ever
I marched into the ring, hauled her off the pony, spoke to the judge and put the pony away in the lorry. I later got him out and popped him over a couple of jumps myself to make sure no lasting damage had been done.
So whilst I would not thump any one I will and have bodily hauled them off my pony.