I can't say much about the jumping photos except you look darn good to me. I bet you were a bit releived when she did make that long one.
as to the dressage, that photo is hard to judge by. there is a faint impression of you gripping with your knee and having the same toes out you'd have on the jumping field, and a whiff of you holding the horse, maybe countering off the reins a bit with the knee. you want more "allowing" her to come through, up and through.
now, again, I can't see in detail due to that angle, so this is an impression only.