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post #21 of 25 Old 05-21-2010, 02:31 PM
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The clarification of the ownership changes everything.
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post #22 of 25 Old 05-21-2010, 04:23 PM
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Yes, themacpack, it does. Before, I was under the impression that you owned the pony. If you don't legally own him, I'm afraid there's not much you can do.
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post #23 of 25 Old 05-21-2010, 11:33 PM Thread Starter
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There is no more to the story then I've already said... I don't understand what is going on and THAT is why I'm so upset.
Also, with the pony; he belongs to my BO but she considers him mine and so do I..? it's really hard to explain how things work at my barn. I'm training him for my barn owner therefore he is mine..?

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post #24 of 25 Old 05-21-2010, 11:42 PM
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We understand that colloquially, he is yours. However, legally, you have zero collateral to complain about. You may be training him, but he is the BO's horse. If she so chooses to un train him right out from under you, that is her decision to make, and she doesn't have to inform you when she does it.

It is unfortunate that she's flighty enough to let one bad ride end your lessons on a specific horse but maybe its for the better. You could be put on another horse, and in a few weeks get put back on Chief and have a whole new perspective. Thats what lessons are about!
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post #25 of 25 Old 05-23-2010, 12:53 AM Thread Starter
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I'm sort of passed the whole I own him versus I don't own him thing.
Even if he wasn't being trained by me, if I wasn't in the picture at all.. this is still a problem.
this pony isn't READY to be jumping. especially not triples. and if anyone wanted to challenge him like that.. it should be a good, advanced, experienced, rider.
I rode him today, he was alright. But we have definately taken some steps backward.

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