Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Wide Open North Dakota, USA
My boyfriend and I are unexpectedly expecting our first child. We work our asses off to have what we do, he works close to 12 hours a day every day of the week, and I am taking 21 credits plus working 20 hours a week so we can get what we have. And yet we know a young lady that has a 2 year old, a very nice 2 bedroom apartment that is **** near brand new, a nice car, and she works part time-because she doesn't pay peanuts for her 2 bedroom 4th floor apartment with a large balcony or for a lot of the food that she and her child eat. Instead she and her friends buy expensive wines and enjoy parties. She rented a party bus for her last birthday. There is nothing wrong with having a little fun here and there, we all need a break sometimes. But a party bus?! seriously.
And as far as the prescription opioid testing goes, they should check the residential pain clinic that that person attends to see if they are just pain-med seekers or actually have an issue. The hospital that I work at has more frickin pain seekers come in because they want IV pain meds instead of their pills. The drug testing could be done, but a meds list and a doctors explanation should be provided. If I was randomly chosen for testing I would hand them my meds list so they understand that I am not a narcotics seeker.
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