Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: The Bluegrass State
No, I don't think you are spoiled, OP. I DO think that you are very well off, and probably have been for most of your life, and you just don't realize it. I don't necessarily mean financially. I mean just in life in general. Not many people have really wronged you, and you've generally had it pretty easy. BUT I am assuming, and you know what they say about that.
I could very well be wrong. What led me to this opinion is the way you are wording things, which is in a very immature manner. I don't mean to be accusatory, I don't mean to sound better than you, I'm just saying that you sound a lot younger than 16 based on the way you type, and the words you are saying. That may be the reason you got jumped so badly - people on this forum are VERY, VERY blunt. They will tell you EXACTLY what they think, and won't hold back. Anyone who wants to disagree, go ahead, but I can easily link you to several threads where people have been ... a bit harsh ...
That said, I think you just need to take a step back and breath. Your father has done a mean thing by promising you the money, and going back on his word. I know from personal experience how much that hurts, and it's awful. What you must realize is that NOTHING is going to change, and nothing will make it better, unless you sit down and talk to him. Be mature, see things from his point of view (as hard is it can be....), and talk civially. That's the only thing that will get you progress at this moment. Okay?
And don't be calling your dad a 'cheap liar,' and don't be hating him. He's busted his butt for you, at one point or another, if not at several points. He loves you dearly. He tries his hardest to be the best he can be. So show some respect, he deserves it.
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Last edited by Lockwood; 05-28-2013 at 05:06 PM.