Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Just south of sanity
You're not married yet, and you're not sharing money and expenses. Do whatever you want with YOUR money, and tell him to go pound sand.
If you let him get away with telling you what you can and can't do before you tie the knot, expect that behavior to escalate, not get better. Once you're married and the money is pooled, then yes, you'll need to discuss making major purchases. Until then, it's none of his business.
You want the truth? You can't HANDLE the truth!