Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Kansas in the summer, Kentucky most of the time
I'm going to sound like a broken record here. but hear me out...
I was recently in a situation much like yours. I felt completely overwhelmed and stuck. There was a "friend" who though I was her competition and continuously tried to one-up me with her money and expensive horse. Saying nasty things about my horses and my looks in the process. I was going to switch disciplines because of her, and then she made me feel so bad, that I wanted get out of horses completely. Then, I realized that it wasn't HORSES I had a problem with, it was HER. So, I cut her out of my life completely, and my passion for my horses and competition was renewed.
Get those toxic people out of your life and focus on your own horses!
Look like a SUPERSTAR, Ride like a FOUR STAR, Win like a ROCKSTAR
Eventers: Making BAD Dressage look GOOD!