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post #11 of 17 Old 05-25-2010, 12:30 PM
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I would have been ****ed if someone did that to me. I wish I could say I would have said something right away but I'm a wimp. I avoid confrontation at all cost (except when someone is hurting a friend of mine. If they are hurting/annoying me I'll stay quiet, touch my friends or a helpless animal and I'm in in their face so fast) So I would have kept going until I got a text like that then I would have been gone so fast there head would spin. Good for you finding a better place for your horse.

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post #12 of 17 Old 05-25-2010, 03:14 PM
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That would've drove me banana sandwich. The barn I previously had my horses at it was known you just didn't touch anyone else's shavings. We all had our own shaving sheds though and everyone was really respectful.
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post #13 of 17 Old 05-25-2010, 10:59 PM Thread Starter
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Originally Posted by kmacdougall View Post
How'd it work out with the friend?
You definitely made the right choice. You are doing so much to provide for your horse, who isn't even getting all the benefit! Some "friend" there..

After I told her I was moving my mare she actually helped find someone to haul her for me, and she said "no hard feelings". Sooo I guess I didn't burn a bridge. Which I really didn't want to do. I've known the lady and her family for almost a decade, so it would've been nasty if we became enemies. I agree she wasn't being very good friend material, and that I let her push me around for a while. Thankfully, it's all over.

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post #14 of 17 Old 05-25-2010, 11:16 PM Thread Starter
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Thanks everyone for being so understanding!

Now she's lives on 30 acres with one gelding. It's actually a horse I used to own, they're old buddies that are constantly attached to the hip. So I'm sure she's happy with her old boyfriend.

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post #15 of 17 Old 05-26-2010, 02:39 PM
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that is awsome
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post #16 of 17 Old 05-26-2010, 02:40 PM
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I'm glad everything worked out for you, and you didn't lose a friend.
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post #17 of 17 Old 05-26-2010, 03:50 PM
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I can only imagine what you're going through. I would be furious if the same thing were happening to me. I couldnt imagine spending that money(especially when you are in a financial situation already), and others using your equipment. I find it pretty rude on the owners end to not even try to understand what's going on from your side. You are one of the original boarders so I find it quite rude on their end to not be loyal to you and rectify what's going on.
I hope you can find a solution that can still be affordable. I can't imagine the stress you're going through right now. Good luck with everything.
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