Would you say something?
So I was advertising to give barrel racing and pole bending lessons, and girl emailed me about them and asked for pics and videos i sent them. We talked some and she told me she was interested but wouldn't have time until after her finals. Well her finals are over, and I still never recieved a call. She's a very beginer rider and to be blunt has no clue what she's doing. She pulls back on the reins and kicks at the same time, her horse doesn't know the barrels, I've seen her at a few shows. But anyway she's friends with this girl who hates me. I've never really talked to the girl that hates me, I'm always nice when she does talk to me. She ruined it when she gave me the dirtiest look after I outran her time in barrels. I know she talks crap about everyone, and I'm pretty sure she told this girl something. The girl that hates me doesn't know me, she knows nothing about me. But anyway the girl that was supposed to come for lessons has been coming out and riding this past week at my barn, once with the other girl and once today alone (I was leaving for someplace when she got here) but she told me last time she didn't have time. I know that other girl told her something.
But I don't know what to do, either go up to her and say something like "hey I don't know why your not taking lessons from me but have time to come out and ride anyway, but if Blah said something about me, don't believe she doesn't even know me"
just let her see me ride out here, she knows I win at shows, I'm starting a 3 yr old on barrels right now. within 1 week of just now cantering barrels (we trotted them for a month) he's doing better than her horses.
It's just really bothering me, I don't like people talking crap about me just because I'm better at something I've been doing my whole life and she's never bothered to listen to any advice given, running off people that need help.