HOWEVER, at least you can observe them and their horses and decide who knows what they are talking about, on line you have ZERO idea who you are talking to, so even more caution is needed. All in all you can learn so much from your fellow boarders, even if it is what not to do
This 100 times over!
I have learned more concerning what NOT to do by watching people and keeping my mouth shut.
As a young woman, if I liked how a human and horse did things as a team, I watched. If I had questions, I would ask that person, and didn't bother with others at the barn.