I am so glad that
@phantomhorse13 is back! Have to say that before I write a anything else!
@QueenofFrance08 , are you the person who has Ona? I think of her sometimes when I am working with Windy. I have made so much progress with Windy. I even enjoy riding her and look forward to the mornings when it is her turn to go out. But one thing Windy is not good at is riding solo. In the summer, when Windy is out on pasture 24/7, I have been able to ride her quite successfully solo many times, although it isn't a lot of fun and can be a bit worrisome.
But in the winter, when Windy is living in the sacrifice pen, she is downright scary to ride solo. The weird thing is she does just fine heading out. It is always on the way home that she suddenly leaps into the air, rears, or bolts without warning. Sometimes she is fine the whole ride. Most of the time she is not. She is perfectly delightful to ride in the company of other horses. But I often have to ride alone, and I need a horse that can do that.
Part of Windy's problem is that she is rarely ridden solo because she is my daughter's horse and my daughter won't ride solo. A few years ago, I realized that most likely Windy is going to be my horse for the rest of her life, so she'd better learn to ride solo. She's young, healthy, sound, and sturdy and likely to live a very long time. Training her to ride solo has been quite challenging.
I remember that Chorro was pretty awful riding solo and Isabeau was downright dangerous. So why am I having so much trouble with Windy? I think I had a mental breakthrough this morning. When I was trying to train Isabeau to ride solo, I discovered that I could easily ride her out my gate to my neighbor's house where she used to live as a secret horse for a year and a half. She was happy to go there because she remembers living there. And she was happy to go home from there because it was heading back home. So I could ride her back and forth, back and forth, and viola! I was riding solo!
Windy goes just fine to my neighbor's house because she also lived there with Isabeau for that year and a half. And she rides home fine now, although for about 2 years, she did not. She would bounce and buck and rear little rears and leap sideways because (I think) she was eager and anxious to get back to her friends and eat hay. Windy does not ride home calmly. Well, she does, for the most part. But suddenly, with no warning at all, she will leap sideways, flinging her head wildly and bolt. She's easy to stop, but still . . . it's very unnerving. She's not a bit hot. She rides along perfectly until suddenly she is airborne and all over the place. And for several years, she'd ride like that going home. So I took
@egrogan's advice and simply got off and led her home that short distance from my neighbor's house. And over the years, she got better until she could safely ride me home solo after riding with my friend. My neighbor is elderly and at times has had some bad falls trying to mount or dismount, so I want to be at his place when those things are happening.
I thought this morning, when I had to ride solo, that I would try out my technique that worked so well with Isabeau. I knew that years ago, Windy was a total brat trying to ride home from his place, but for about 3 years, she's been just fine. I hoped for the best.
Windy did the first pass up and back perfectly. But I discovered that once we got to my neighbor's house, Windy wouldn't leave to go home. It made me realize that for Windy, everything needs to be the same. And after arriving at my neighbor's house, we normally open the gate, go in, watch him mount his horse April, and then ride out together. We DO NOT get to the gate and turn around and go home. We go in the gate. And Windy wasn't going to do anything but stand by the gate waiting for me to unlatch it and go pick up April. I really had to get after her to leave and go home. She kept swinging back to the gate. "Mom! We go in here! We don't leave without April. Stop telling me to go home! We don't have April with us!"
Finally I got her to leave, and she rode home as nicely as she normally does. I thought we had figured out a solution. Nope. The second ride back to the neighbor was a bit jumpy, but OK. On the ride home, Windy was very jumpy. The third time was really wonky. And heading home, Windy leaped, banged my nose with her neck, bolted, and was just downright awful. I realized that Windy is a creature of habit. When things deviate from what we always do, she falls apart. Or else she was just plain mad that I was torturing her by letting her think she was done with the ride. Anyway, my plan failed.
I rode her around in the yard near the other horses for about 10 minutes, and then rode her in the sacrifice pen (which she has always done just fine) for another 20 minutes. Every other winter, I have just ridden her in the sacrifice pen when it has been her turn and I am solo. I really hoped, since I was able to ride her out for hours this summer, that this winter we could manage the same thing. I think what I am going to have to do is lead her to my neighbor's and back about 6 times.
Another idea I have is to ride her in the hayfield and woods across the street for 30 minutes and then lead her home. One thing I do not want is a broken nose, and I really think if I push this too much, I will end up with my nose broken. It is still a bit sore from 2 weeks ago when I thought I could ride her down the trail for an hour and a half and she was awful several times on the way home and she bashed me hard twice.