First of all, I want you to read through this thread:What is the best way you know of to teach a horse the barrel pattern? I'm trying to train my made on barrels, if you have any tips of tricks please tell.
This is very incorrect thinking.Also I don't need lessons my made just needs to be trained.
Your horse sounds green and spoiled. And that's showing up when you ask her to do something, and she simply ignores you.Her previous owners were scared of her so the let her do whatever she wanted and she was bred to barrel race.