Ok, just wanted to see if I'm overreacting. My b/o has been out of town for a week, and my hubby and I have been feeding and turning out in the morning and doing stalls and feeding in the evening. I went out this morning and gave all 3 horses their grain. While they were eating I went to put their hay out in the pasture. We've had a lot of rain this past week, so I decided to put the hay piles in the paddock area right outside the barn on the gravel, to give the pasture a chance to dry out for a few hours. I got a text from my b/o after I got home, who was at the airport 4 states away. It was a forward from the girl who is staying in her house while she is gone, saying the horses weren't fed this morning, so she took it upon herself to feed them. Rather than call me(number is in the barn, on my mare's stall, AND in the house, she chose to mess with the horses and text the b/o. This girl knows NOTHING about horses, and filled a 5 gallon bucket with sweet feed(the horses only get oats, the sweet feed is for the goats), and 2 full bales of hay and took it to them in the pasture. The horses had been grained and given hay not 2 hours prior. Am I out of line for being upset??? I called her and explained to her that if any of the horses colic or have any issues because of this, it will be her responsibility to pay vet bills, and asked her to not have ANYTHING to do with my mare. I just needed to rant, lol. Cookies if you made it all the way through!