Just wondering what bit would you consider to be just a step above a snaffle? I ride Oscar in a French Linked Hanging Cheek Snaffle and hes just wayy to strong for me. Ive tried schooling and all that but once he gets excited theres no way i can hold him back. Im physically not strong enough:/ Just wondering whats the next step up from that? I dont want to get a gag or anything like that...