I need some help because I am being a weenie. Lately I've been a bit unhappy with a few things regarding my horse's care. I've spoken up but things haven't changed. A stall opened up at the barn next door and I've decided to move him. I think this is a move that will benefit Dancer's welfare and my mind as well as my pocketbook. The new barn feeds a higher quality food and its smaller so I feel there will be one on one care. I have known the barn owner for 2 years or so. There are also a few more factors. Here is my dilemma. I'm scared to give my notice to my present BO. I really like her and the whole barn family. I don't want to hurt her feelings or have her mad at me but I need to do what's right for me and my horse. I still plan on riding with the present barn crew because my mom leases there but I don't want things to be awkward. Any suggestions?