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Horse Talk for Mature People over 40 - current

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If you are over 60, are you still over 40?
YES. Should we be singing Happy Birthday???

I would not give up on Kahlua just yet. She may have just been nervous and that caused her to take a miss-step. Have you tried using a mounting block? My horse is weird about people mounting from the ground. Then again, she is weird about a lot of things.
When I have ridden used a mounting block, only way I can get on, lol
 
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@Celeste We should have changed the name. I've got 12 years until 40 but everyone so nicely puts up with me!

@phantomhorse13 Sorry about the storm and all of the damage hope everything gets cleaned up quickly!

@Spanish Rider Sorry about your rough lesson! I hope you feel better!

@AnitaAnne I don't have any help but I'm going through the same thing with Nacho. I'm looking for any and every possible explanation for his behavior and I think I'm seeing things where I'm probably not! Hope we both get answers soon!
 
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I think the old thread should be safe now its been closed so shouldn't lose any posts. I don't know what happened in 2015 but all posts prior to then disappeared - I know the thread was around long before then.


I was going to move a months posts over but they will all appear in front of my explanation post because they're older so I decided to leave it with the link to the other thread instead.
 
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I so appreciate all the help! Sometimes I am worried I am worrying too much :icon_rolleyes:

Will be a few days before I can get her out there to ride. If you look at the video right after 0.1 thru 0.2 slowly and even move it backwards, that is where I saw the odd leg movement the most.

The other thing that I saw while she was riding, might have been the tendon bulging or something. Might try lunging her with some splint boots or sport boots if I can find a pair to fit her.

She was supposed to be my "broke horse" that I could put guests and kids on. Maybe even pony Chivas with. Instead she has been a money pit...:frown_color:
 
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I’ve tried watching it again. Sadly my awesome new iPad doesn’t support full screen video so could only keep pausing. I will try on my old lap top a little later. My first thought is she cant be that bad if she can maneuver to kick up like that! She sure is a looker.


It’s also possible with the rocks you said were around she could have moved into something and twisted to avoid it?

I’m anxious to hear from others with more experience
 
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I don't see lameness - the 1 white foot throws the visual off. What I see is a horse that is very underconditioned (and I know that she needed to put weight on so that is no ones fault) I think the under conditioning will cause her to move oddly with a rider up. We have an "extra" horse and she will take some time to move out freely with a rider up the first few times she is ridden each year. She has to build up muscle where it had wasted away. For our mare she is ridden 2-3 times per month by daughters BF

Try more ground work and pole work and see how she moves out. That white leg throws off the visual so it is harder to detect anything
 
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Queen, thank you. You probably haven't been here long enough to know that I had a very bad accident 4 years ago, after which I developed PTSD. The panic attacks are fewer & farther between now, but I still get doozies, especially if I am weak, sick, etc., or days like today, which is DAY 13 of my period. Sheesh.

I had noticed that you talk a lot about Latino food (fajitas, salsa, Nacho). I hope you don't mind me asking, but is your DH Hispanic, too?

P.S. I think we all agree that pre-40-year-olds are allowed in this group, as long as you don't call us old or make fun of us when we start talking about menopause!


AnitaAnne, I am THE WORST at identifying conformation problems, unless they are very obvious. Plus, with my bad eyesight, I can't see for the life of me anyway. But, Kahlua sure does look purty now.


Trainer just called me at 10pm, as soon as he had finished up at the barn. Too cute. If I were single... and he were about a foot taller.:icon_rolleyes: Anyway, we've decided that I'll take tomorrow off and we'll have class on Friday. I had wanted to leave it until next week, but he said "no, Friday". Don't know if he'll give me an easy class on Presu or rock my world with Ermi. In Spanish, they have a thing called "curarte de espanto", which literally means "heal you by fright" or "scare you sane". The loose translation would be "make you face your fears". Of course, I am not consciously afraid of Ermi... its is my subconscious mind that goes berserk.

I am having no luck uploading the videos to my YouTube acct. I am now trying DH's. Aren't you lucky, though? That way you don't have to fake all the niceties.:frown_color: As a photo test, I am uploading pics of my garden, which is finally starting to wake up.
 

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Spanish, I’ve had that happen to me too! Nothing, nothing, nothing, then BAM! Beautiful gardens! I’m a little jealous. Right now our place is such a wreck with both kids moving back with their dogs, blah, blah,blah. And, I actually think “face your fears” can work in many instances. It sounds as if you have a very observant trainer. Trust him.

AnitaAnne, I think the advice of pool work is a good one. Just to see what happens?


Seems so odd to only have 2 pages.
 
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Re: Barefoot Recliner (the new thread occasions repeating)

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Aaaahhh, the Trinity movies! Loved ‘em.
It's so funny that the European perception of the Wild West was extensively shaped by central Italian landscapes and their mining quarries, plus a staged Wild West town - these are Italian movies, filmed in Italy, on Italian horses! I originally saw them in Italy, before moving to Australia (we lived in Italy 4 months every year) - in Italian - the Italian TV stations repeated them endlessly as the spaghetti western was a much beloved genre locally. :)

I think that saddle Terence Hill is on is so hilarious - I can imagine a bunch of Italians putting their heads together and saying, "What's the most outrageous way we can invent to ride a horse?" :rofl: And when he was sleeping it off, of course, his horse dragged his comatose form home on a sled.

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On another note, @Blue , it's breakfast time here - we're offset 12 hours from West Coast US time - and I was thinking about delicious no-chew breakfasts. What we're having at the moment kind of qualifies - a peach crumble - a load of unsugared steamed peaches I froze from our abundant peach harvest, just put the defrosted fruit in a large flameproof dish so it comes about halfway up. Make a soft crumble by heating up some honey in the microwave until it's liquid, stir in a tablespoon of butter for taste and mix in rolled and/or quick oats (fine cut, I'd go for that until jaw heals) and dessicated coconut in whatever proportions you like. Top the stewed fruit with it and bang the whole thing in a moderate oven for 20 minutes until heated through but don't let the top burn. Serve with milk or cream. It's wholemeal and has lots of fruit and will keep you going a long time. Amish dietary studies have shown that fullfat dairy products aren't a problem; just don't have them by the bucket full unless you actually are a calf.

Porridge is quick and good, and easy on your sore jaw. My husband, inexplicably, has the Scottish version made with water and salt. :eek_color: Personally I make it with milk. Just put fine-cut porridge oats in a breakfast bowl, top with milk, microwave on high for 2 minutes, and on about half for a few more minutes after that until it sets. (I found by experience that running it on high for more than 2 minutes results in spectacular volcanic eruptions and tedious follow-up cleaning.) Then stir in a little honey to sweeten and perhaps a dash of cinnamon.

A really decadent, but still healthy, variation is chocolate and strawberry porridge. Add some sliced strawberries before the moderate power microwaving stage, and when it's done, stir through a couple of teaspoons of drinking chocolate powder to sweeten. Or use a teaspoon of pure cocoa and some honey. Dark and delicious and the strawberries just zing in the chocolatey wholemeal breakfast! :)

Smoothies of course - berries, decent unflavoured Greek yoghurt, fresh or stewed peaches or other stewed fruit, a dash of orange juice, perhaps some LSA (linseed/soy/almond meal), whatever you like, just whizz and drink.

Scrambled eggs with a little smoked salmon (or ham) and parsley is nice and soft and nutritious if you like a cooked breakfast. I put in a little cream for texture.

Mashed potatoes anytime! With or without cream, garlic (a peeled clove added at potato cooking stage), chives, parmesan, other grated cheese...

Hope you feel better soon. :hug:
 
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Here's a few photos to illustrate:

We use our own honey and here's how I uncap it:


Uncapping Honey – Red Moon Sanctuary, Redmond, Western Australia
by Brett and Sue Coulstock, on Flickr


Uncapping Honey II – Red Moon Sanctuary, Redmond, Western Australia
by Brett and Sue Coulstock, on Flickr


Here's the scrambled eggs as a lunch dish with sides of green beans and kohlrabi (tastes like a cabbage/potato hybrid, yummy):


Another Mostly Home-Grown Lunch – Red Moon Sanctuary, Redmond, Western Australia
by Brett and Sue Coulstock, on Flickr

Here it is as a breakfast dish, with some home-made bread (for after the jaw has healed) and a berry/citrus smoothie:


Healthy Breakfast – Red Moon Sanctuary, Redmond, Western Australia
by Brett and Sue Coulstock, on Flickr


And this makes a nice lunch alternative to tacos if you can't chew or want something different. Just oven-roast a pumpkin and then scoop out the seeds and put in the taco filling. Salad on the side.


Mexican Style Baked Pumpkin – Red Moon Sanctuary, Redmond Western Australia
by Brett and Sue Coulstock, on Flickr
 
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I see they have decided our thread is a glitch-maker. Hopefully everyone makes it over to this new one.

@Blue : OUCH!!! Omg your poor face!!

@AnitaAnne : I have no ideas on the weird cannon bone thing - I hope you just caught the normal movement of a tendon out of the corner of your eye.. You are so kind to not have sent Kahlua back

@Spanish Rider : sorry to hear you are having a rough time of it, but please don't lose sight of all the progress you have made because of one small setback. I am very interested in seeing your passage video, so I hope you will link it again. Your gardens are lovely.

@SueC : how cool to collect your own honey! bet that tastes amazing.


Over the weekend, I went up to New Hampshire for the Bare Bones ride. I rode a mare named Promise. The whole story is in my journal.

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@Celeste, our cat would have had a hard time letting them go!

Had a young Cardinal in the barn last weekend, fluttering around trying to find the way back out... My DD spotted him and was "that is a fledgling!", leaving me floored, as 1) she is only 5, 2) English is not our primary language and 3) how did she know that the bigger, yellow beak indicate a younger bird???
 
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SueC, I had some scrambled eggs this morning with a little crumbled feta cheese. That was wonderful!

Thank you for all the recipes. I’ll be needing them. Sadly I am such a carnivore, this is all very hard.

Daughter came up with a soup today that is incredible. Browned sweet Italian sausage, bacon bits, chicken broth, small cut potatos. When cooked to soft, add small cut kale and/or spinach and about a cup of heavy cream. Incredible. I broke up a slice of garlic toast into the soup to soften and it was really good. I won’t be losing any weight. Turns out I’m pretty good at soft foods along with chewy foods as well!
 
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Daughter came up with a soup today that is incredible. Browned sweet Italian sausage, bacon bits, chicken broth, small cut potatos. When cooked to soft, add small cut kale and/or spinach and about a cup of heavy cream. Incredible. I broke up a slice of garlic toast into the soup to soften and it was really good. I won’t be losing any weight. Turns out I’m pretty good at soft foods along with chewy foods as well!
Mmmmmmmmmmmmhhh! Sounds delicious, I'm going to try that combination! :)

Your carnivorous urges could be satisfied for a while with items such as mincemeat (you call it ground beef/ground whatever species?) dishes e.g. potato-top shepherd's pie. There's also pate, tinned corned beef (yeah I know, but you may get desperate and the consistency works), and black pudding/bloodwurst/etc. Maybe haggis! Steak can be put through a blender if you need to, or try Steak Tartare, as it's chopped up and soft! ;-)

@Spanish Rider , that Presu is so gorgeous! I now request to see clips of you with other riding school horses, pretty please with cherries on top! :cool: Love the athleticism and finesse of that horse!

Nice to see the house/grounds photos too, now I'm getting a better picture of your life!

@QueenofFrance08, haha, I had no idea you were "underage drinking" on 40+! :rofl: I do that on the Krones and Kodgers, who have kindly given me cheerleader status and a leather costume. They have wonderful stories, and great hints for dealing with all sorts of 40+ ailments. It's a good place to swap information on various ankle braces, shoulder braces, back braces etc that can extend our riding lives and keep us from falling apart for longer. ;-) I've already got all the ones I listed above, for various times and uses. I trim the horse and donkey feet at our place, so the back brace is great for that as I'm 5'11" and it's really rough on the lumbar region!

Ankle brace was bought in my 30s actually, after dismounting from a horse straight onto a cannonball-sized rock I hadn't seen, and badly twisting my ankle. Wore it again for a few days this week after falling down an 'ole with that same leg!
 
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@Sue , many spaghetti westerns were also filmed in southern Spain in the Tabarnas Desert, including "They Call Me Trinity". https://www.spain-holiday.com/Tabernas/articles/tabernas-desert-a-visit-to-hollywood-in-almeria

Your posts always make me so hungry!


@Celeste , adorable swallows. We have lots in our barn right now. Do yours have a southern accent? Loved seeing you ride Balckhawk/Rapper in the other thread. You are very brave to ride with your cell phone in your hand!


@phantomhorse13 , I miss covered bridges! None here, of course. The funnest part is the acoustics inside. Must be great fun on a horse.

Let's work on getting some more pages going
But @SwissMiss , you've been awful quiet lately. Still working crazy hours? I know nothing about wire tracings. Yeah, feeling stupid right now as your 5-year-old has a better vocabulary than I. Fledgling is a word I can honestly say I have never used.


Finally got the dreaded video to load:
 
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@Spanish Rider , that's so fabulous! :loveshower:Thanks for sharing these clips. What amazing horses - must be awesome to ride such highly trained and spunky horses, you lucky duck! :) And you're doing great, no need to nit-pick flaws. Practice makes perfect! You go girl! :clap::clap::clap:




Good to know Spain also got screen fame for the spaghetti westerns! Like those Welsh quarries which had to pretend to be alien planets for classic Dr Who! :)
 
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@Spanish Rider, thank you for sharing your videos! No way I could even pick apart your riding. And I have to admit I am seriously distracted by by Presu :love: what a great horse!

Yeah, I am on week 9 non-stop and running out of steam. Realized that I added about 70% of the techs (that left) workload on top of mine. Which would be one thing, but the longer I do her work, I find corners that were cut by her... But an offer was made and accepted for a new hire - now just the tedious admin stuff needs to get done (which sometimes takes forever!) Can't wait!
@SueC, Spaghetti Western, yep grew up with them! You lived in Austria for a while? Then I'm sure you came across Winnetou :wink:
And yes, your posts make me hungry too, yum!
 
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@SueC , Spaghetti Western, yep grew up with them! You lived in Austria for a while? Then I'm sure you came across Winnetou :wink:
And yes, your posts make me hungry too, yum!
Before emigrating to Australia when I was 11, I used to spend around 4 months of the year in Italy and the rest in Germany. But we did have to drive through Austria to get to Italy, and I've got a funny story about an Austrian checkpoint official. My mother had a huge round tupperware container she used to fill with assorted home-made Christmas cookies for the Christmas trip to Italy, where we lived in the mountains next to the northern end of Lake Garda.

Anyway, this Austrian border official decided to check out everything in our car, go through the boot, etc. He acted so suspicious, and when he unearthed the tupperware container he said, "A-ha!" triumphantly. He asked what was in it, and we said, "Cookies!" He didn't believe it - must have thought we were smuggling drugs or ammunition or something - and bid us open it. You should have seen the look on his face when he saw the cookies. :rofl: My mother asked him if he wanted to eat some, but he declined and went back in his little checkpoint box. :D

I've heard of Winnetou, but never watched/read any!

Feel free to make and eat any of the recipes! ;-)
 
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@Celeste - love those birds! :love:

@AnitaAnne - that dog looks so much like an Australian Red Heeler! What is his/her name? Does it go riding with you?

@jaydee & the technical buffs - thank you for saving our conversations safely and giving us a new fresh "book" to fill. My husband is an IT nerd and was going, "Poor forum software! Over 1000 pages in a thread, and it has to index every new post..." It was awful losing the whole shebang in 2015...
 
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