Hi everyone! I was hoping you guys could give me tips on how to trot/canter while not using stirrups? What should I do for my legs? I've asked two different instructors. 1 said to keep firm contact with your calves and squeeze for balance, and the other said to let your legs hang loose and relaxed. I'm really not sure what to do >< I fell of 3 times in 15 minutes the last time I tried to trot without stirrups. Thank you!