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Joker’s Reno Sun, aka Joker is gone

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The vet was here more than two hours this morning. Joker was not coming out of the colic, in spite of all the meds. It was the right thing to do for the most gentle & loving horse I have ever owned.

Joker would have been 27 in August. He came to live with me when he was eleven. Anyone who has been on this forum for awhile, knows Joker lived with more health issues and three horses should have to.

Joker got to spend his last two weeks in the big pasture with Rusty. He was happy. He was feeling good - too good and too good sometimes is not a good thing,

He is laid to rest on this farm, beside three of his buds.

Only Rusty remains - Rusty has now seen four of his friends go on to their ancestors. He is very quiet. I have not kept him isolated. He has to know Joker is not coming back.

My dogs are upset, especially the Rottweiler as she loved Joker. The neighbor’s little is dog has come over to mourn with us. Their big dogs were at the fence - watching quietly.

Anyone who thinks species don’t recognize loss in other species, is not thinking.

God Speed Joker. Your hurts have healed. Today you shall run.
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Oh no, I am so terribly sorry to hear this @walkinthewalk. Joker was a special horse, and had a great life with you. My heart goes out to you and Rusty right now.

Hugs.
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I'm not an overly emotional person (years of pushing down feelings will do that), but this gets me right in the chest. I just want to hug Rusty. The crow story is so very touching.

I guess I just wanted to add that Joker (and Rusty) have not only made your life better, but many other lives as well through the many posts you've shared on this forum, and the many words of advice you've shared with people like me over the years. I've appreciated your guidance so very much, and my horses have benefitted from it countless times. So for that, I thank Joker. It's impossible to know how many horses' lives he has improved through this forum and its readers, some just lurking but still learning. He has led an amazing life. I hope you find Rusty a friend soon. Any horse would be winning the lottery to end up in your care.
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Hang in there. There's a perfect companion out there somewhere.

When I decided to get my Rusty a friend, I put the word out and within a few weeks had some offers. One was for a very scrawny 3 year old part Newfoundland pony that a friend brought home out of pity. She had lice, and was too thin, but I was just looking for a friend for my guy so that when Harley went to shows, he wouldn't be alone. Well, that little pony which I loaded up just about a year ago for the tidy sum of 650$ is now a lovely little addition to our barn, and a talented young mare too! We feel so lucky to have found her. May you find a "Bella" for your own Rusty :)
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I know you probably are comparing all horses to Joker, but I feel like you're not enamoured with Buckshot. I still can't believe there isn't someone near you with a retired horse that would love to see him spend his final years on your rolling hills! I'm glad you're investigating a few more leads. I would hold off a bit more since Rusty seems ok for now.
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As much as we'd like to, we can't save them all. Someone tried to give me a 19 year old Standardbred "project" horse a couple of months ago. I mean a) I don't have the room, b) the next horse will have to be for my daughter who doesn't currently have a horse to show or even grow with as a rider, and b) that is probably a rank 25 yr old (they always lie about age) unbroke pasture ornament with a bunch of health issues. I really don't need that in my life, sorry.

Is there any chance Rusty will adjust to solo life given that you have other animals on the farm? I'd be tempted to go slow, take my time... when the perfect horse comes along, go for it, but in the meantime, maybe Rusty needs time to mourn too.
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Oh, that's so amazing! Yes, sometimes in life you just have to be patient and let things find a way to work themselves out. There is a time to be proactive, and a time to just let the universe decide. Seems like it decided for you.

I do hope all goes well and Rusty is happy to see his new friend. There is no doubt Duncan will be overjoyed and think he might have gone to heaven. It may take time for him to adapt of course, but he could not end up in a better place.

Fingers crossed and reminding you of the mandatory multiple picture clause of HF whenever a member gets a new horse. ;)
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Duncan is adorable! I'd say that fence is smaller than 2'6" even, but hard to say. Could he clear your fences? You betcha. But he won't want to! Why on earth would he? He'll think he's died and gone to heaven.

Bella straight up jumped out of a stall the other day (the door is 4') because she was separated from her two "boys". Currently, with the snow and ice, my fence in the pasture is maybe a 2'3" jump for her. But she has no desire to leave her ample pasture with multiple room service calls each day and her two bffs.

What an amazing story about how this all fell into place. I can't wait to hear more about him and how Rusty reacts when he sees his new friend!
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Awww, what a sweet horse!

Sounds like you've got every detail planned out. Yes, it may be a little sad for the owner to say her goodbyes, but she can always come back to visit! I've had a couple of Harley's former owners come visit him and they were so happy to see him here. His original owner, who lives a bit farther way and has not yet been able to make the trip (she sold him due to a divorce so it was hard for her), keeps tabs on him via FB and told me just the other day that she felt like he was meant to end up with us. I think Duncan was meant to end up with you, to keep Rusty company and have a happy retirement! His current owner will be thrilled to see how much space he will have at your place, and it will comfort her to see his new home.

Fingers crossed this all goes very smoothly, but I can't imagine that it wouldn't given the amount of planning going on! Keep the updates coming :)
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