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I am a 19 year old college student who has owned my mare for about 5-6 years. Over that time frame I feel like she has gotten worse and worse. She started out great a little speedy but she could do all three gaits well! I took lessons and we seemed to be doing well. We showed great for the first two years, then we started having issues. We always have had small fights, battle of wills I guess where I would have to show her she couldn't bully me, but she would soon get over whatever it was and go back to normal. Then one year I moved her to a boarding barn for the winter, that's when it really went downhill. She would rear, and throw fits! I didn't change how I was riding at all and we work on it constantly. I still took lessons and when I moved her back to my parent's house that summer she was back to normal. Well mostly normal, she still would fight with me and she really had issues just being calm. She would get a choppy gait, her strides would shorten up and she wouldn't slow down. It took allot of time to just get her to calm down after cantering. She wouldn't even go to a walk sometimes, but we still worked through it. Then we joined 4-h, we began showing at a different fair and it seemed like things were going downhill, she couldn't be calm in the show ring, she wouldn't even walk sometimes again. We still did fairly well, we even won a horsemanship reserve champion award this year, twice. Then I moved out and had to move my horse as well. She moved back to the boarding barn and from there things went downhill again. She choked this year before the move so she was off riding for a bit till her throat could heal from having to be tubed. When I got back on she was ok but had a slight cough. It went away with time, but then things got worse. She started to put her head up, like a freaking giraffe.. I couldn't get her to put her head down and her gates got all choppy. She didn't rear, but anytime I moved her to a trot she would just put her head up and try to speed trot. My trainer has me just walking her right now, to try and establish a calm. We have but still anytime we move to a trot the head goes back up. She looses her cool, works to a sweat sometimes. I am so frustrated, we used to be great, we had our problems but I could deal with them, now we can't even trot. I am frustrated and feel like just letting her stop trotting every time let's her win and is teaching her all she has to do is put her head up and she doesn't have to do the work. I want to be able to ride my horse.. she is being trimmed regularly, her teeth were just floated, and she has no health issues. What could be causing this and how do I deal with it?
I am a 19 year old college student who has owned my mare for about 5-6 years. Over that time frame I feel like she has gotten worse and worse. She started out great a little speedy but she could do all three gaits well! I took lessons and we seemed to be doing well. We showed great for the first two years, then we started having issues. We always have had small fights, battle of wills I guess where I would have to show her she couldn't bully me, but she would soon get over whatever it was and go back to normal. Then one year I moved her to a boarding barn for the winter, that's when it really went downhill. She would rear, and throw fits! I didn't change how I was riding at all and we work on it constantly. I still took lessons and when I moved her back to my parent's house that summer she was back to normal. Well mostly normal, she still would fight with me and she really had issues just being calm. She would get a choppy gait, her strides would shorten up and she wouldn't slow down. It took allot of time to just get her to calm down after cantering. She wouldn't even go to a walk sometimes, but we still worked through it. Then we joined 4-h, we began showing at a different fair and it seemed like things were going downhill, she couldn't be calm in the show ring, she wouldn't even walk sometimes again. We still did fairly well, we even won a horsemanship reserve champion award this year, twice. Then I moved out and had to move my horse as well. She moved back to the boarding barn and from there things went downhill again. She choked this year before the move so she was off riding for a bit till her throat could heal from having to be tubed. When I got back on she was ok but had a slight cough. It went away with time, but then things got worse. She started to put her head up, like a freaking giraffe.. I couldn't get her to put her head down and her gates got all choppy. She didn't rear, but anytime I moved her to a trot she would just put her head up and try to speed trot. My trainer has me just walking her right now, to try and establish a calm. We have but still anytime we move to a trot the head goes back up. She looses her cool, works to a sweat sometimes. I am so frustrated, we used to be great, we had our problems but I could deal with them, now we can't even trot. I am frustrated and feel like just letting her stop trotting every time let's her win and is teaching her all she has to do is put her head up and she doesn't have to do the work. I want to be able to ride my horse.. she is being trimmed regularly, her teeth were just floated, and she has no health issues. What could be causing this and how do I deal with it?