Get her set up with a trainer who is knowlegable in barrels and maybe even has a seasoned youth friendly horse to help teach her the ropes to lease. As for the barn thing it is a great idea to talk to barns in your area about maybe helping out around feeding, turning out horses, cleaning stalls etc. Before thinking about the barn in the future I would just worry about getting her a good start properly in barrel racing, do research and find a good trainer and start there.
My 16 year old daughter
My daughter took horseback riding lessons back when she was 10 for a year but decided to take up another sport. She competed in various mini shows at her barn, particularly barrels and did pretty well but it was a small competition. Anyways now she is 16 and decided she wants to start riding again and eventually compete in barrel racing, she also wants to further her riding career by studying equine sciences and agriculture business in college, wanting to open her own ranch. I think that is a little drastic but she has her mind set on it! How should she go about getting competitive in barrel racing and is there anything I should get her into now to help her achieve her goal of owning her own farm. We don't live on a ranch but kinda embrace some of the culture with our city living! Thank you 
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A lot of really great advice here especially about working under a successful trainer. She'll have to start at the absolute bottom, cleaning stalls, grooming horses and doing all the hard grunt work before she's trusted enough to actually ride one of the trainer's horses. If she's determined enough she may get to that goal she has.
Bear in mind that it is likely that she will most likely lose interest in this idea and in horses in a couple of years. I've been training and instructing for 40 years and my experience has been that 95% of horse crazy girls will
lose interest in horses and drop out completely between the ages of 16 to 19. The fact that she has already dropped out once before makes those odds even higher.
Another poster was absolutely right about the realities of making a living doing this. It is incredibly difficult to actually make a full time living with horses be it training or owning your own facility. As an adult, you are acutely aware of how much your day to day expenses are-adding the expense of owning even one horse is extremely difficult. They are still very much a luxury item.
No need to discourage her dreams but make sure she's the one who is doing the work and learning those hard lessons of life
Bear in mind that it is likely that she will most likely lose interest in this idea and in horses in a couple of years. I've been training and instructing for 40 years and my experience has been that 95% of horse crazy girls will
lose interest in horses and drop out completely between the ages of 16 to 19. The fact that she has already dropped out once before makes those odds even higher.
Another poster was absolutely right about the realities of making a living doing this. It is incredibly difficult to actually make a full time living with horses be it training or owning your own facility. As an adult, you are acutely aware of how much your day to day expenses are-adding the expense of owning even one horse is extremely difficult. They are still very much a luxury item.
No need to discourage her dreams but make sure she's the one who is doing the work and learning those hard lessons of life
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