I HATE HER! The only reason Im still using her is because she is the only one my parents will pay, I'm only 14 so I can't get a job and pay for my own so I'm stuck with her! I don't like her because she never explains anyhing and is very confusing. Last night was my lesson and she wanted to work with rein management. Well I wanted to work on Walk, trot, canter, stop, and back because thats what she told me to work on and I did and Dozer is great with those. But, since she is the all mighty trainer she gets to decide. So we walk around the perimeter of the arena then trot. At one point Dozer leaves the rail to come to her. (she always gives him cookies and he is VERY food motavated!) SO I am bumping trying to get his huge head back to the rail, and he braces his neck and turns to her, then she tells me to drop my reins so I do, and she starts yelling saying how I'm ruining the horse and how I just let him get away with it and that it is annoying how I always do it. What the hell??? I NEVER do that!!! Its only when she is there and he wants cookies. She is so dumb! She gets mad when I can't pull his head around fast. Maybe because Im 100lbs and muscle-less and Dozer is an 18hh draft? Whatever, after that she told me I had to bump and when I did she said NO! Your bumping you should be pulling! Then I do pulling and she yells at me for not bumping! Then after we have yelled back and forth she says that she doesn't want to teach me anymore because I'm giving her lip! So I say fine! Leave! BUt does she? NO! Ugh!!! I HATE HER! ONe lesson she decided that I might want to learn how to show him in halter so we were pivoting and she kept saying I was doing it wrong but never would give me an explaination. In like the last two seconds of that lesson she said he is doing it right if his legs pass behind, if they pass in front he is doing it wrong. I really need to find a new trainer!!!