I got a QH mare about 4-5 months ago and what the owners failed to mention was that she was a kicker. Their daughter broke her of her kicking habit but as soon as I went on my first trail with her, she kicked the horse behind me (and since we have had 3 kicking incidents) I don't like going on a 'relaxing' trail ride when I'm petrified she'll kick. I tried to ride her bareback twice, the first time it took about 10 minutes to get on due to her not standing still. The second time she bucked me off. What was I told when I first bought her? "I ride her bareback all the time! She loves it!" She won't come to me in the pasture and often pins her ears around me. Winter barrel racing starts soon and i'm terrified to run her due to the waiting area in the arena being tiny. Other horses around my mare's backside is a recipe for disaster. How can I bond with her? Or does she just generally not like me?