I'm still struggling with the gate. He lines up well and backs up so I can open it, then walks through and that's where I lose him. He turns to face the gate when I need to push it shut. I'm trying but man it's hard... Everyone keeps telling me the gate is the easiest obstacle. It's the hardest for me... Any advice would be appreciated. I am sure I'm part of the problem but I do believe he is honestly confused or not comfortable. And I'm sure I'm giving some wrong aids/cues. I doubt he's messing up the same way every time on his own.
Slow it down if you need to.
My guess would be your WEIGHT is not in the right spot.
Let's say you are trying to reach to grab the gate. You are now putting your weight on the wrong side of the horse,and it's going to PUSH him away more from the gate.
While you are training, if you need to let go of the gate to finish it, fine. Let go of the gate.
Make sure to keep your WEIGHT on your OUTSIDE seat bone so you need to stay sitting square in the saddle.
Use your outside leg to ask him to move his hindquarters or ribcage or whatever you need back toward the gate.
Honestly, this is a common problem spot for horses.
But just be patient. Take your time. Let him understand where you are asking him to put his feet. I think people panic because they are in a rush to get that gated closed, but if you are having trouble, then slow it down and break it down.
This is an
old video but it's of a horse Romeo that I tuned up for a month or two for my aunt, and I helped her sell him.
I was at a local show. This was "show horse trail" (and not ranch trail) but they had a gate obstacle nonetheless. He'd never done anything like this before but I figured, what the heck, this will be good experience for him so we did it. While he didn't quite face the gate like you are having a problem with, he didn't want to sidepass back over. I sacrificed the ride by letting go of the gate and even going 2 handed with him (which DQ'ed me) but we were there for the purpose of training so I didn't care.
Really watch how I actually put my WEIGHT to his left side, so that he can sidepass to the right. He was a little confused but I just kept at it, and he eventually figured out what I was asking.
Because remember, when you LEAN to go close the gate, now you are putting your weight on the wrong seatbone and you'll actually cue your horse to move away from the gate. So be mindful of that.
He was a cool horse. Fun to ride.
I'm also struggling with the roping. I can't figure out how to keep from closing my left hand so when I throw, I don't release the rope so the lasso falls short. How do you force your hand to stay open?!
I'm not a real roper so take my advice with a grain of salt, LOL. But I just focus on having a good hold on the tail of the rope AND my reins so that when I let go "of the rest", I don't let go of the tail.
Perhaps a real roper can give you advice on that!