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You have just encountered one of the main reasons that we do not ever mix mares and geldings. We do not even run them across a fence from each other unless we absolutely have to.

The best solution would be to separate them completely. The best way to do that without him running fences and losing 100+ pounds would be to haul her off for a week or so and then not put them back together or near each other for a good while.

We know several people that have had so much trouble with these super-close
bonds that they decided to keep just all mares or all geldings. It can be that big a problem with a very few horses. You will see some mares bond to other mares and some geldings bond to other geldings, but they are seldom as problematic as a gelding that falls in love with a mare.

If you want to try to separate them on the same premises and get him to be reasonable, you will have to teach him to realize that there is life (and a return to the friend) after being separated. This would mean tying him up in a safe place far away from the mare (and people) and let him stand tied all day. Let him scream, paw and carry on until evening comes or until he relaxes, quits fussing and rests a hind foot. If he is still fussing in the evening, put him up and tie him back out the next morning. I have known it to take 3 full days (could take longer), but every horse we have done this to finally got quiet and finally figured out that there was life and a return to their friend in the end. This may also be what you have to do to get this horse 'rideable'. This is just not an uncommon problem. It just varies in degree.

I always tie them up to separate them and do not just let them run a fence. Some horses will either try to climb or jump out and hurt themselves and some start running, walking or weaving and never quit. You just trade one vice for a worse one. 'Hot bloods' are worse about taking up walking or weaving.
 
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