Here too :roll: It's mostly just girls who ride around here

 

i know right, this needs to change, im tired of having boyfriends who get jealous cause i need to go ride my horse or do a horse show! I wanna share my love of horses!

 

LOL, there are plenty of straight guys who ride down here, but most of them aren't the type that you would want to take home with you. Fighting, beer drinking, snuff dipping jerks is mostly what we have here.

 

haha nope! not what i want! now i have to saw polo players are the best, i went to virginia to watch a polo match and wow. So many gorgeous, rich guys

 

My moms ex-bf was a polo player....and I mean "player" in the literal sense :?

 

Pretty much all straight male polo players tend to be egomaniacal *******s. Heck, even the gay ones are the same way.

Why anyone wants a riding SO, I don't know. Mine doesn't ride; that's my thing. He has his own interests.

Any man who would be jealous of a horse isn't worth keeping around, regardless of whether he 'gets' horses or not.

 

haha oh i know, the polo players are always douches cause they are loaded with money. And im only 16 and all the guys i know think horses are dumb except for one, but i broke up with him cause well, all he wanted was sex. Very frustrating!

 

Hmmmm....MightyEventer, you can join trail riding club here in MD. Guys there are straight (since I always see them with women on annual party). :wink: HOWEVER I'm not positive about "hot" part as most of them are 50, 60 and over....

 

haha oh gosh, def not for me! chances are i am never gonna find a 16-20 yr old guy, unless i go to the track, my friend who works there is always bringing home guys from there! lol

 

SR, I would want a riding SO when I'm older so I can share my favorite pasttime with someone. For me, same interests are huge

 

Naw, equiniphile. There will always be plenty of other people to ride with and share your interests when you get older.

My SO can and does ride on occasion, but it's not really something in which he's interested.

He's big into graphic novels/comic books, and I only have a mild interest in them. Kind of the same way he feels about horses.

We have plenty of other things in common, so there's no problem with being able to find middle ground.

If you ONLY relegate yourself to looking for someone who has the same passions as you, you're missing out on a lot of potentially great partners.

Things like ethics, morals, and beliefs are important to have in common, but everything else is just fluff. As long as he doesn't have a problem with the amount of time you spend on your passion, what difference does it make whether or not he shares it with you?

 

Note:I'm single (I'll tell you why)
The guy here are ropers or bull riders
Bull riders havebig ego (mostly)
Ropers too.
None my age to so another reason. Man! I want me a cowboy! At the yearly rodeo there are some but have a girl. (I'm going to be a home wrecker to steal someone's ho boyfriend)
But we need some here where I live.

 

I met my hubby at the barn. He's Western, I'm English, I was the ride every day type, he was the work every day and trail ride when he could type. That worked out well for us, as far as horses went. We could ride together, or I could ride alone. We both ride differently, but never squibble about which is better or right or whatever. And he didn't care that I spent money on horse stuff, or spent time at the barn, because he understood it. But situations like that are rare...

 

I know they are rare! you are very lucky

 

I'm not looking for a SO, but to me it's a deep heart issue to the point that I see non-horse-lovers as being from another galaxy.

 

haha me too! im tired of getting weird, confused looks when i tell someone what i do with my horse, i want someone who understands!

 

^Totally agree. When someone makes conversation and I tell them I have two off-track Thoroughbreds and I do dressage and hopefully eventing soon, they give me that "uh huh...sounds cool" look :lol:

 

haha exactly! i never have anythingg interesting to talk about other than horses now a days, im so cool.

 

I know what you mean. I said, ''horse back riding is common here." "You can do roping and barrels and cutting." The guy said, ''what's cutting." I was like ugh...

 

Lol DieselPony. That is too cute abut the bf.

 

Lol i like this thread..
Nope no hot guys who ride horses who are available. And personally I do not like guys who ride english they act gay.. If they actually aren't
But I must say my farrier is HOT HOT HOT...Had a fling with him a while back but he's my brothers best friend. Plus he was a major player and now he has a wife and baby.. LOl needless to say it didn't work out

 

So true. Even if you find one that is good looking, nice, and can ride well, he's usually taken. UGH!
Either way, there is a smokin' hot jouster that is at the Renaissance Faire I work at each summer, of course, I heard that he is in a relationship. BOO! But I can still drool over him.

 

ahh jousting--there was a guy who "jousted" at my school--idk if he was lying of serious but he was so cute, but had some ugly girlfriend, just my luck

 

AGREED!!! I swear, i had one guy trailing me. and he didn't even ride, he drove mini's....and smoked....and drank.....and just wanted me for...well...we all know hahahah :P

What ever happened to all the good nice boys?? I think too many think its "gay" to ride, which is soooo not true

 

My husband doesn't care one bit about my horses and I'm just fine with that. I do not have to share my babies which is really good since my new horse is 14.2hh and hubby is 6'4"! If I need to have some alone time, I can head for the barn.

He doesn't say one word about my riding (well, other than cracking jokes if I get dumped), absolutely loves hauling and stacking hay for them and will do anything I need if I ask. On the rare occasions that he visits the barn, he stuffs the horses full of treats, so they all love him. Pretty handy if I need help, they follow him around like big dogs trying to look in his pockets.

We have one girl that rides and one that doesn't. It's awfully nice that I can head for the barn and not have to take a non-interested kiddo with me. I'm perfectly happy with a non-horsey hubby, it wouldn't be good if I had one following me around telling me everything he felt I was doing wrong!

 

I'm perfectly happy with a non-horsey hubby, it wouldn't be good if I had one following me around telling me everything he felt I was doing wrong!

****! That's so true. I remember friend of mine INSISTED to go to the barn with me (even though I knew he doesn't like animals and I didn't like the idea in 1st place). Folks, you should see his face while I was grooming my mares (and that was also that perfect day, when they were COVERED in mud from top to the bottom :? )...! But you got what you wanted, you know....

 

greyshell, he really is nice to look at, isn't he? *dreamy eyed look*

 

That's why I got a hot guy and then taught him how to ride : )

 

I know a guy who goes to a cowboy church, ''I would like to ride my friend do it." He said, but I'm not sure if he was kidding like his normal self or not. He talks about it a tony little bit, I told him I ride and have 3 horses. He said cool.
I"m clueless if he really wants to or not.

 

New idea----find a horse photographer so you can get some kickass pictures, lol jk, but that would be a big plus for me since i love pictures.

the guy im currently "talking" to supports me riding, i think this is the closest ill get!

 

My boyfriend doesn't ride, in fact he's terrible. Lol but he still enjoys riding with me occasionally. & I'm glad! Otherwise there aren't any other guys around here that ride!
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Kevin, that's after we had him start feeding beet pulp. Don't have any pictures of "before"....

 

I wanted a hot straight guy(who rides) from Christmas.. Didn't get one D:

 

im glad my bf doesnt ride ! my horsie time is my time haha he has his own time [which is less time than gypsy gets...sorry !!]

 

Im no where near hot, but every girl that rides around here is stuck up and/or like 30 years older than me. I mainly do western but Im considering trying some type of English though soon. NO IM NOT GAY haha

 

Lol... A lot of the girls here are the same. It's sad but funny. I point and laughed. I'm so mean.

You want to go cross, jumping or dressage?

Most guys here are roper.