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Parelli Horsenality Dos and Don'ts

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Here are the Horsenality Do’s and Don’ts! I believe this is vital information if one is going to have amazing success with horses….this is what separates the men from the boys! Lol.
Knowing what makes your horse tick is a fantastic key to success with your horse. Here are some updated Do’s and Don’ts for each Horsenality.
LEFT BRAINED EXTROVERT
This horse is a playful character that needs interesting things to do. He is obsessed with learning and needs variety and new things to keep it fun.
DO:
*Teach him something new at least once a week.
*Keep sessions active, interesting and playful. Use obstacles, become more imaginative and when he’s really playful, increase the pace and get him to do more.
*Mischief is his middle name; so give him things to do with that busy mind and mouth. This horse loves to play tricks on you, so why not teach him some tricks on purpose?
*Use long lines- 22’ and 45’. Give him room to move!
*Praise him a lot: rubs and scratches, smiles, laugher…..you having fun as well, is very rewarding for this kind of Horsenality.
*Encourage his ideas and he’ll become interested in yours.
*Move his feet and he’ll give you his mind.
*Use the Patterns! They give him a purpose.
DON’T:
*Bore him with endless, mindless repetition. This guy is smart! When you know he’s got it, move on. You can always come back to it and polish little by little.
*Slow, calm riding is not really this horse’s dream. He wants to be active, go somewhere.
*Short lines (12’) are too confining when playing on the ground.
*Punish him, ever. He doesn’t know he’s being naughty; he’s just having fun! If he’s high-spirited, and you punish him he’ll become aggressive. If you end up scaring or suppressing him he’ll shut down and crawl inside his shell to save his dignity.
*Argue with him as it’s an opportunity for him to dominate. Encourage his idea instead and he’ll come around sooner.
 
OBEDIENCE STRATEGIES:
Parelli Patterns give him a purpose and engage his mind. Encourage his idea first.
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RIGHT BRAINED EXTROVERT:
This horse constantly needs reassurance. He gets confused easily and then gets afraid, so he needs you to make things simple, which will help him relax; especially since that is not something that comes easily for him around humans.
DO:
*Frequent disengagement and transitions. Also use a lot of consistency; it’s calming. For example, circles are great and the more worried your horse is, the smaller you need to make the circles. You could also weave around barrels or buckets placed six-feet apart. Frequent transitions also use the principle of consistency….keep doing one-rein transitions every few strides, from walk to trot, until your horse refocuses and calms down.
*Speed up, match the energy and add “four ounces.” You need to be asking your horse to go more quickly than he really wants to; this interrupts the fear pattern. If you don’t feel safe and confident doing this when riding, get off and do it from the ground. For example, if your horse gets frantic and wants to head to the arena gate, paces at the gate, etc. take him there and get him to pace back and forth faster than he wants to do it! Do it until he relaxes and be ready to start again.
*Use longer lines when playing on the ground, it will give your horse more drift. (22’ is ideal unless you are good with a 45’ line).
*Respect thresholds; use approach and retreat to overcome them.
*Keep learning sessions short and simple.
*Relax when he relaxes, so pretty soon he leans how to keep you quiet! Until then keep your energy up and get your horse busy.
*Parelli Patterns! They give him focus.
DON’T:
*Straight lines help a horse gather speed. You don’t want this! Use straight lines only when your horse is more self controlled.
*Don’t hold him back; this increases fear. Give the energy a focus and remember to use ONE rein for control- it disengages and calms.
*On Line is better than Liberty if your horse is upset. That way you can “hold his hand.” He’ll tend to get lost and disconnected at Liberty.
*Don’t teach your horse more than one thing at a time.
*Don’t try to teach him when he’s upset or unconfident. That’s the time to use calming strategies.
*Forcing him over thresholds usually results in an accident.
*Don’t wait for things to get better, he needs your leadership to help him get calm again.
CALMING STRATEGIES:
Frequent disengagement; A Million Transitions; small circles; tiny figure 8s; Falling Leaf (½ circle changes of direction while you walk forwards); do what he wants, only faster and smaller- “and then some!”
MAKE IT WORSE BY:
Holding him back; punishing him; using stronger bits, tie downs, martingales, etc.; being too soft and not matching his energy; not knowing what to do- strong and focused leadership is essential; blasting through thresholds; getting mad or frustrated or scared.
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RIGHT BRAINED INTROVERT:
This shy, timid shrinking violet avoids pressure by retreating into himself. Success involves going very slowly at first and waiting for him to come out of his shell, to trust more. Pretty soon he’ll be offering you more.
DO:
*Wait- wait-wait-WAIT! Ask your horse for something and then wait until he does it or looks at you to ask for clarification or more direction. If you just go through your phases and get him to act when you want, he’ll be tense, lose confidence and trust. He may even blow up.
*Use the tiniest and softest suggestions and wait. This horse sees every little thing you do, sometimes he doesn’t respond because his brain is locked up in fear.
*Be consistent. The RB horse has trouble with change so do simple things with lots of repetition until he’s confident.
*Move his heart and he’ll give you his confidence.
*Confidence is everything. If you focus on this, your horse will give you everything else.
*Parelli Patterns! They give him confidence.
DON’T:
*Make your horse do things when he’s not looking at you. This tells you he’s afraid of the pressure you are putting on him. You might not think it’s pressure, but you can overload this Horsenality even at Phase 1 simply by asking and asking and not waiting long enough for the response.
*Ask too much. Ask less in the beginning and you’ll get more in the end. Don’t ask more unless your horse is calm and trusting.
*Use big phases. You don’t need them. He can see you, he just can’t think when he’s afraid or rushed/pushed.
*Punish your horse for not doing what you want. Remember, this is fear, and punishment does not make a horse braver.
TRUST STRATEGIES:
Wait until he can think. Go slow, VERY slow, and he’ll grow in confidence. Spend undemanding time. Use a lot of gentle repetition.
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LEFT BRAINED INTROVERT:
Welcome to the land of “Why should I? What’s in it for me?” This horse reads people like a book. He knows what you want and he’s not going to give it to you, unless you treat him right. Even though he appears stubborn or lazy, he’s not at all lazy in the mind! Reverse psychology is where it’s at, oh…..and treats!
DO:
*Use incentive- treats, grazing, rest, scratches, etc. Incentive is not bribing because you’ll ask your horse to do something before rewarding him. A bribe is when you use the treat to lure him into doing it. There’s a big difference.
*Ask him to do less than he’s offering. It will blow his mind! He’ll then start offering more.
*Give him time to think. He’s not a slow thinker; he’s just got to stop thinking resistant thoughts before he can be more in tune with you.
*Variety is important, it makes life interesting.
*Use more drive than draw.
*Teach him some tricks. This is fun for both of you and is a good way to make him feel clever.
*Move his mind and he’ll move his feet.
*Parelli Patterns! They encourage him to think and show how smart he is.
DON’T:
*Make him work. He uses energy only for the things he thinks are fun.
*Punish him. You’ll have a big fight on your hands. This horse is a master intimidator of people when he dislikes them!
*Don’t push him. He’ll have you working harder than him. He’s also great at objecting when asked to go faster and usually responds by kicking up, swishing his tail or laying back his ears. Do the opposite of what he expects such as stopping, slowing, petting or giving him a treat.
*Don’t micromanage- ask him to do something and then wait for him to do it. If he doesn’t, resend.
*Don’t get tougher, get more ‘interesting’- do less to get more. Surprise him with a flick under the flank and a treat (cookie, rub or rest) when he tries.
*Use much repetition. He cannot see the point in doing the same thing over and over and will lose motivation and respect for you. He’s smart. Treat him like he is.
*Let your horse come to you with his ears back. Playfully send him or chase him away until he asks for permission to come to you.
*Get fooled into thinking that he’s lazy. He’s just unmotivated by you, so figure out how to make things more interesting.
IMPROVE MOTIVATION:
Likes- variety, rewards and food! Also responds well to going slow, relaxing, eating and doing things that are new and interesting.
VARIETY:
Straight lines, point to point, trail rides, obstacles, daily variety, tricks and learning something new.
BIG DISLIKES:
Micromanagement- you need to encourage him to use his brain.
 
 
#3 ·
Misty doesn't really fit any of the horsanalities, she is just a happy inbetweener :-p I think there are more than 4 types of horse, there are more than 4 personalities and you can have a bit of both :) They can probably change over time too!
 
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#43 ·
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I used the horsenality chart and my horse also has traits of multiple types. The idea is to achieve balance with the horse, so if you already have a well-balanced horse, that is great! It can definitely change over time, with the right (or wrong!) kind of training, with age development, etc.

I think it likely that most horses have a basic tendency towards a kind of 'horsenality,' and evaluating mine has been extremely helpful. She was starting to disengage and knowing to find what motivates has turned things around greatly. She is still young, so I expect there will be changes as she gets older too.
 
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#8 ·
Question, if you aren't supposed to make him work, how would you go about long fitness rides or a day campdrafting where they have to work?
It's all about preparation. Get your horse WILLING at home BEFORE you have to do something more intense. Once the positive pattern of being willing is instilled in the horse, and the rider makes sure to take care of his needs, you'll be able to do anything you want and it won't be "work" to the horse.
 
#7 ·
I don't know, Spirithorse.

What if your horse dosen't fit in these catagories? Then what do you do?

Or what if you do step A for your Left Brain whatever and he should do step B, but does step D? You simply can't stick a horse's reactions in catagories..
 
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#9 ·
I've personally never met a horse that didn't fit into one of the categories. And really, each and every horse has each of these tendencies, it's just a matter of which one(s) are more intense....like with my warmblood, his right brain introvert side is burried very very deep, I never see it anymore but when I first got him he would sometimes go catatonic, which is an extreme behavior of a right brained introvert.

If the horse does step D when you asked for step B then it's either because you asked the question wrong, you asked the wrong question, the horse actually did think you asked for step D, or the horse is left brained, like you said, and is trying to dominate the situation. In each case it can be fixed.
 
#10 ·
Confusing..

I prefer the old fashioned way :)

Clicker training is my friend.
 
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#11 ·
It's not confusing if you understand what's going on in the situation....if you are reading the horse correctly and know what you're looking at/for, if you know what to look for in yourself, and if you know without a shadow of a doubt what to do at any given moment when the horse does something unexpected. The Horsenality chart has given me a huge "arrow in my quiver" and has helped me be able to get results with horses ten times quicker.
 
#12 ·
I have to say, I don't think any one program has THE answer, but it is foolish to dismiss potentially valuable information because you don't like the commercialism of Parelli, or you disagree that horses can be pigeon holed into 4 categories. I have started approaching my horse differently, not because he fit into a neat description a la parelli, but because I figured someone who has trained hundreds if not thousands of horses might have some valuable advice to give. Do I think that Parelli is the only way? No way. Do I think I can learn a new approach and way of thinking about why my horse responds in certain ways? Absolutely. We have made huge progress in a very short time just from me changing my approach. Don't bash something because you think it isn't for you. Everyone you meet can teach you something, even if it is just about the way you DON'T want to be.
 
#35 ·
I have to say, I don't think any one program has THE answer, but it is foolish to dismiss potentially valuable information because you don't like the commercialism of Parelli, or you disagree that horses can be pigeon holed into 4 categories.
Interestring.

I never needed a test of my horses to see what I was dealing with. If the filling out of a chart IS needed to understand your horse then I would say you really need to rethink your percieved ability and the possibility that you may never have the ability to be a good trainer.
precisely. All I was saying is that maybe people can take some information away from this, even if they don't subscribe to it verbatim.
 
#13 ·
My horse is EXTREME left brained extrovert! Except if we didn't give him heck for some of the things he does he'd be WILD. Always willing to learn new ways though, but for now discipline on the ground is my best friend or I'd be a chew toy and the cross-ties would be history.
 
#15 ·
Ditto for Scout. I went through the whole questionnaire and the circle chart and everything, and he's really evenly spead across all 4 as well. :?
 
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#16 ·
Lacey is a hardcore left brain extrovert.
I'm not much of a Parelli fan but I do like the idea of figuring out your horses personality and going from there. Just like humans, horses have one or a few learning styles that they use a lot but nobody can get the perfect results from every single learning method.
Even though I don't use Parelli, back when I first started with Lacey I did use the horsenality thing to figure out how to get to her, and after a year I'm seeing major results from not pushing her beyond her boundaries (without the ideas from the chart I feel it would have most likely taken me a year to figure out what she needs). Now she shows me how far I can push and we have a much deeper communication, she looks to me for security, quite literally, and she's figured out how to tell me that I'm pushing too hard without blowing up.

It's helped me get to her which I like but, I also feel that people could seriously misuse it.
 
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#20 ·
Pat specifically talks about NOT anthropromorphizing animals. Pat's mentors DID categorize horses this way, they just didn't tell him straight out like Parelli is doing right now. That's why they were so amazing with horses, and that's one of the reasons Pat is so good with horses now.
 
#21 ·
I can see how this can be helpful, but I've been doing this for years. I always adapt my training plan based on the personality of the horse I'm with - I've never found it difficult to realize the form training must take to be most beneficial based on the personality of the horse.

I guess it's good for beginners? I agree though, horses are like people and you simply cannot categorize them, which makes it more confusing to people who don't understand proper reaction to action.
 
#23 ·
Interestring.

I never needed a test of my horses to see what I was dealing with. Simply adjusted my training based on experience and common sense. I am not aware of top trainers like Lugar, Breezy, Cindy,Rich, Mario and a ton of others that successfully get their horses to where they need to be by filling out a chart for each. If the filling out of a chart IS needed to understand your horse then I would say you really need to rethink your percieved ability and the possibility that you may never have the ability to be a good trainer.

It is the exceptional trainer that can watch a horse move and withing 10 minutes figure out how to approach the training of that particular horse. Many of these people came well before Parelli and many are out there just doing their thing right now on their own using their instinct and experience alone to guide them..
 
#31 ·
It is the exceptional trainer that can watch a horse move and withing 10 minutes figure out how to approach the training of that particular horse.

well, spyder you just made the case for the chart right here!!! If it is only the exceptional trainer who can suss out a horse within minutes, then the rest of the mere mortals will need a little extra help huh? If something like a chart and suggestions on how to approach training horses with particular traits helps out the vast majority of horse owners who cannot afford to hire one of the few great horse trainers there are in this world, then why is it so bad? If it benefits both horse and owner in the end, it is a good thing. So as was said before, if you don't like it then don't say anything. And keep your superior attitude away from boards with people seeking honest advice.
 
#25 ·
Spirithorse, I have no doubt that you are a great trainer.

But you simply can't stick an individual horse into a personality group.

All horses, people, animals, etc are different.

It might help, but I wouldn't fully rely on it.
 
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#27 ·
Right. But I wouldn't fully rely on it.

Like I said. It helps.
 
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#28 ·
Sheesh. She believes in this, others don't. I think by now we all know that we differ in opinion on this, and no amount of argueing is going to make Spirithorse change her view or admit any perceived failings on the part of her mentor. Can't you just leave it?
 
#30 ·
I live by these horsenalities. YES I could adjust my methods by working with them and figureing it out over time. But these helped so much with makeing so many less mistakes and figureing out what WORKS for what horse MUCH faster.

My mare is a LBE/LBI/RBI. Shes 3 horsenalities. No horse is really just ONE. Chance is a lot more LBI but LBE comes out a lot as well. With these I have a 50/50 chance :P of it working. And I have a lot more willing horse for it. Im not just forcing her.

Other horses Ive worked with this has helped a lot as well.
Its hard to read horses at that exact moment and I can read one horse as being totally LBI but it turns out they are RBI... Makes a difference but you learn as you go. Like I phased 4 the horse, and he totally flipped out... and I just took it and went with the other side of the chart in a way.. from then on it went a lot more smoothy and finally he WAS LB and I had to switch BACK over. But that was the goal anyways. :)
 
#36 ·
I have never once filled out a Chart for Chance, I observe and learn and adjust as I go along. U dont NEED the chart, but if your horse is showing so much of everything its a good thing to have to help. I thought chance was just LBE/RBE

but like above I said she is a LBE/LBI/RBI...
 
#37 ·
I still don't understand why people who disagree with NH (particularly the subject of my thread) are even posting......as I said before, this was not meant to be a 'bash the parelli horsenality chart' thread, this was meant for those who were interested in it and wanted to learn from it, so please stick with the original intention of this thread.
 
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